Today marks my 32nd birthday, reminding me to reflect on all the experiences and lessons I've gained. Despite the ups and downs, detours, and roadblocks, I've emerged with a wealth of insight and experience. I'm excited to share this with others and hope to inspire my future children to embrace life's challenges and find their path to success.
That being said, I've compiled a list of 32 things that I've learned so far:
Actions are more important than words.
Don't expect everyone to agree with your view. Everyone is different and experiences life differently.
Enjoy your favorite shows without care.
Go against the grain in life.
Find hobbies you enjoy. Don't base it on others.
Adapt a modest and humble life.
If you're a writer, write what you know and want. Don't write for the popular vote.
Read. It doesn't matter what you read. Read for enjoyment and read for growth.
Get your finances in order.
Create a healthy lifestyle you can maintain.
Be open to constructive criticism.
Try different cuisines.
Moderation is vital in all aspects of life.
Know your triggers and work on those.
Have go-to recipes for everyday and special events.
You may not agree with everyone, but it doesn't mean you must be cruel and treat them inhumanely.
Find ways to give back to your community.
College isn't for everyone. There are other paths to success.
Reach out for help when you need it. Don't deny when you're going through a tough time. It's hard when pride gets in the way, but how do you expect to get help when you don't say something?
People may say or do things to you. But it's up to you how you react.
Don't start fights. Finish them.
Journal. Paint. Workout. Do something to shut down your mind at the end of the day.
Stay off electronics as much as possible. If necessary, put a lock timer to help you.
Travel as much as possible. See the world. Meet new people. Experience different cultures.
Visit your doctor regularly. Take care of your health.
You won't be the person you were in high school, in your 20s, and so on. Be okay with that.
Align yourself with good causes. But constantly research their values, morals, and ethics before doing so.
Question everything. There's nothing wrong with questioning what you believe, what you read, or what you hear.
Don't blame others for the choices you make. You made them. Not them.
Your life path isn't linear. You're going to encounter detours and roadblocks.
Be honest and communicate your needs, wants, and desires. No one can read your mind.
Love all, that's it.